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How to Build a Culture of Empathy?
(under development)
We're asking
people to share their stories, thoughts, feelings and insights about
how we can build a culture of empathy. We'd like to come up with a
blueprint for building a culture of empathy and compassion.
How we can Build a Culture of Empathy?
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Create the Vision
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Create a Vision for what a world with a high empathy
level would look like?
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What's the problem with the world we live in now?
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What will the world look like as the empathy level
rises?
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What will be some obstacles to our vision?
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How will we overcome them?
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Set the Intention
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Have the intention to build a culture of
empathy.
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how do we get the intention?
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how does empathy or a culture of empathy improve peoples lives?
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why would we want to even deepen empathy?
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it feels
good
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lengthens
our lives
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Dialog about it
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Network and connect with others who value empathy
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Build a movement for cultural transformation
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Study Empathy: Be able to talk about empathy
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be informed about empathy stories, science, arts,
etc.
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Read articles, books, etc., watch videos about empathy
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be able to respond to different arguments and
concerns
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be able to address objections to empathy
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Be able to empathize with the people your talking
with.
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Understand how empathy works
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Clear Definition
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Modeling
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Have people experience the visceral 'feel and
'taste' of it.
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Practice
Empathy,
Practice
Empathy, Practice
Empathy, Practice
Empathy, Practice
Empathy,
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Fill your empathy batteries
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the more empathy you receive, the more space you have
to give it.
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we all need
support
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Parents need support, - parenting leave, etc
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Promoting
empathic people to the top of social institutions
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Develop training that deepens the individual components of empathy
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Remove blocks to empathy
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Empathy Rapid Response team
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Change all social institutions to actively support
empathy.
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Government, Education, Media, Justice System,
Commence, Healthcare, etc etc.
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Others
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go to the
pain, suffering, fear, alienation with awareness, presence and empathy
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create a
online curriculum
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How we can Build a Culture of Empathy? |
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Sura Hart
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Modeling it is the key to education
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Parents need support, - parenting leave, etc
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Give teachers education on empathy
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Have TV moderators using empathy to bring people together
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More movies and cartoons that model empathic connection
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I have more ideas, I'm thinking about it all the time
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I appreciate what your doing.
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I take heart that there are many people bringing forward empathy
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More politicians talking about empathy.
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local level with skilled moderators, who want to get people heard
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Mutima Imani
Social Justice Minister East Bay Church or Religious Science,
Faces of the East Bay
How to build a Culture of Empathy?
Forgiveness is at the heart of empathy. I forgive you on the fear
based on color removes victim-hood. Democracy that includes all of us,
it brings empathetic listening.
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Katy Dawson
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Working with parents and giving them the tools
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Schools can become centers of empathy
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letters to the editor, are full of blame
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want to talk with peoples who's letters confused me
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get people who are on the other side of the fence to have dialog
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a forum for conversations
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for creating connection and understanding
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so enemies are not enemies anymore
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We're brought up in a culture of whose right and who's wrong
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the opposite of what happens on tv now.
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Desiree
Banzhaf
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We are naturally empathic
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Some skill development can be useful
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Building awareness of what is not empathy can help
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advice, story it reminds them of, questions
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catching ourselves and bringing the awareness back
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a practice of what the mind is doing
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brain attaches, tries to help, organize
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all those practices help
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noticing and eliminating them
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Elouise D Oliver
Senior Minister East Bay Church or Religious Science
How to build a Culture of Empathy? Allow people to cry. Crying
we are human and will feel what the other feels. When crying they
are feeling their own pain. Now real empathy is happening. Just
watching that person in pain, they are starting to empathize now and
we don't want to do that. If you can remember your own pain and your
own suffering, your own feelings. I can empathize with anyone
because I'm a mother. What I know is that every person has a mother. |
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Aaron Voldman
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need it in every facet of our life
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it's hard
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lessons learned in the BePeace Program
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I'm thrilled there's a documentary being
made on empathy
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Mike Robins
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talk about it more
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talk about it and teaching it
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studying it more
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how to increase emotional intelligence
to expand empathy
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continue working to the ideal
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Empathy Interview
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that's beyond our reach
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creating a culture of sympathy and
tolerance
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empathy is that you feel it, that you
are it
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you feel that person, their pain and joy
whatever.
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Empathy Interview
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Empathy Interview
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why can't the other be someone we want
to be with
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the other is someone, since I was born,
is someone I've wanted to know
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every culture is interesting and we can
take the good instead of what we do
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I don't understand this lack of empathy
around the world.
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Empathy
Interview 4
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disposes the ruling class
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create democratic socialist system
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need a new social structure
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need a system the perpetuates empathy?
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This group used
reflective listening to deepen empathy for each person. People
reflected what they heard the speaker say until they felt fully heard,
before moving on to the next speaker.
Facilitator: Edwin Rutsch,
Lenel de Emma
Participants: David Hartsough, Jan Hartsough,
Sherri Maurin, Lenny Reiter
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Living in the consciousness that “we
are all one family.”
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Create connection rather than
separation.
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Respect/allow for differences, be
nonjudgmental, and celebrate differences.
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Embrace and Engage the Other
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Visit Tea Parties, Sarah Palin,
George Bush, etc.
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Edwin told story of visiting Tea
Party and Republican State convention to talk with participants
about the role of empathy in their lives.
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Find the truth in everyone, every day,
all the time.
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Use the language of connection.
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Explanation of How Empathy Works
Child Development
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Roots of Empathy
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Teaching Empathy Skills
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meditation
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active listening
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reflective listening
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education
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Circle Processes
In Personal Relationships
Circle Processes
Foreign Policy
Community Development
Media
Empathy Buddies
Being Heard
With Crime?
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