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The Center for Building a Culture of Empathy is a leader of the global empathy movement. Our mission is to build a movement for creating a global worldwide culture of empathy and care. We do this through a variety of means.  First is by community organizing and by collecting, curating and organizing all the material we find on the internet on the topic.  A current  focus is on; bridging social and political divides, designing a free online empathy training course, building an academic empathy training literature wiki, and holding public activist Empathy Tent Pop-ups..  Also learn more about Empathy Circles at

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interviews, panel discussions, etc,

We reached the 400+ Empathy Circles, Panels and Interviews milestone!!!  There are over 400 hours of experts from around the world talking about how we might build a culture of empathy.

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Empathy Circle Facilitator Training Sign Up

Visit the Empathy Course

Learn to facilitate an Empathy Circle. Join this event if you would like to take part in the training. This is a multi session training, 2.5 hours per session.

We are forming multiple cohorts of
participants. There is limited space in each cohort, and all participants must check with trainers to be accepted into the training. The basics of facilitating an Empathy Circle are fairly easy, however, it is a life long learning to deepen the skills and build a more empathic way of being and culture.

The practice is the most effective gateway practice for learning, practicing and
deepening listening skills and mindset
. More at

> What is an Empathy Circle?
> Why Participate?
> How to Empathy Circle?
> Empathy Circle Facilitator Training

Empathy Training Cuts Crime
So what are we waiting for?

Neema Trivedi Bateman

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Neema Trivedi-Bateman is Senior Lecturer in Criminology at Anglia Ruskin University, and also the Course Leader for two Criminology courses.  Her PhD thesis, is entitled 'The roles of empathy, shame, and guilt in violence decision-making'. Neema's research interests include youth crime, developmental criminology, forensic psychology, violent offenders, and moral decision-making.


"Empathy is crucial for supporting law-abiding behaviours and decisions, and traditional sources of empathy development, such as parents and teachers, are vital for the development of lawful behaviour in children.

 Deficient empathy is a risk to all members of the community and can occur when children have inadequate or absent role models. If deficient empathy can be identified and addressed from infancy, we strongly believe that fewer incidents of harm and wrongdoing will occur in society."

Innovation & Constructive Change with Empathy

Amy J. Wilson

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Amy J. Wilson is a change leader, community builder, movement maker, and an empathy advocate. Amy specializes in building and sustaining cultures of innovation with a social good mission and is the author of Empathy for Change.


"If our bodies are wired for human connection, empathy is our beating heart. Often thought of as a "soft skill," empathy is a superpower that I've learned to wield for good and accept that it's my biggest strength.

I think of empathy as more than just "stepping into another's shoes" it's about feeling with each other to act, if needed. Empathy is responding to the thoughts and emotions of others with the purpose of meeting each other's needs."

About Therapeutic Empathy, the Empathic Dialectic and Empathy Circles

Shannon McIntyre


Shannon McIntyre is an Assistant Professor in the Department of Clinical Psychology at Antioch University New England. Shannon is broadly interested in adult development from attachment-based and psychoanalytic perspectives, as well as psychotherapy process and outcome. Initially, her research interests were geared toward better understanding how stigmatization impacts identity formation in women.


More recently, however, Shannon  has been focused on the therapist characteristics that facilitate and/or inhibit therapeutic empathy.   She has consequently presented at national conferences and co-authored articles related to the empathic process. As a Research Associate at the Program for Psychotherapy, Dr. McIntyre will continue to conduct research on therapeutic empathy, and on topics related to psychotherapy more generally.


Rogers contended that therapeutic empathy is best described as a multi-dimensional process, which means "being sensitive, moment by moment, to the changing felt meanings which flow in this other person... and sensing meanings of which he or she is scarcely aware."

The Importance of Empathy In
Healthcare and Physician Training

Frans Derksen


Frans Derksen is a Dutch retired Medical Doctor and has a PhD in Empathy in Patient and Physician communication. In this discussion, Frans shares his research on the importance and effectiveness of empathy in healthcare. His conclusion is that specific education about the theory, evidence of empathy and training of specific empathic skills, should be explicitly taught to medial students and residence.  Edwin talks about the effectiveness and application of Empathy Circles as a foundational empathy building practice.


 More explicit attention needs to be paid to empathy in physician training by embedding theoretical education, explicit attention to skill training and assessment of empathic behavior by patients and supervisors.

Empathic Listening as Foundational

Empathy Building Practice

Grin Lord



Grin Lord is a board certified, licensed clinical psychologist who provides psychotherapy for children, adolescents, parents and families. Grin is co-Founder of Empathy Rocks, and is an AI researcher. We discuss the foundational importance of empathic listening for nurturing a more empathic way of being and world.


"I learned that reflections were incredibly powerful conversational tools. Good Motivational Interviewing  therapists are supposed to provide a minimum ratio of two reflections to every question, but ideally four or more per question.

I loved reflections. I thought reflections were so great, that I designed years of therapy training and eventually an entire company around teaching people to provide them."

Grin Lord

Empathizing with Racism
Daryl Davis


Daryl Davis is an African American musician, author, actor, bandleader and a race relations expert. He is  well known for his work on dialoguing with, and befriending members of the Ku Klux Klan and other extremist groups. Through dialogue, empathy and understanding he has convinced Klansmen to leave and denounce the KKK.

In this dialogue we talked about the role of empathy in Daryl 's work. Daryl describes his process of how to effectively listen to, understand and dialogue with people. It is about not demeaning or attacking people, but about seeing their common humanity. Once you are willing to listen to others, they are more willing to listen to you and engage in constructive dialogue.   We also talked about organizing and holding Empathy Circles between different opposing groups.


'You're not going to beat the meanness out of a mean dog. You start beating a mean dog, it's gonna become more mean. You start beating racists, they're gonna
 become more racist."


"People learn racism through dialogue. Somebody tells them about it. So if you can learn it through dialogue,
you can also unlearn it through dialogue."
- Daryl Davis


Empathizing with Racism
Ryan Lo'Ree

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Ryan Lo'Ree, was once a right-wing extremist with the Rollingwood Skins, a Michigan-based offshoot of the largest Nazi movement in the United States. While in the organization, he moved up the ranks quickly to become Vice President. In his role, he was responsible for mainstreaming hate groups on social media. He went through a process of transformation and healing centered around trauma associated with sexual, physical and mental abuse he endured from male family members.  He now works with Light Upon Light as Interventionist and Program specialist, contributing to the organization's work on combating polarization, structural injustice, racism, hate, and violent extremism.

"To classify another human being as less than,
is the moment you lose your empathy
and the argument."


We discussed how to bring people out of extremism with empathy. Empathy does not mean you agree or disagree, or sympathize with someone. It means listening deeply and understanding. It means seeing the common humanity of each other, and that builds connection and healing. The act of empathy is transformational.

About The Empathy University

Rasha Kutty

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Rasha Kutty is the founder of the Empathy University. Rasha is an advocate for empathy and firmly believes in the power of the individual to effect change in their surroundings, one step at a time.  The Empathy University's goal is to provide empathy training to educators  and corporate organizations to help grow a culture of empathy in the world. The Empathy University journey began with the realization that empathy is a revolutionary skill that can solve almost all unsettling issues facing humanity today.


Q. Why the focus on empathy? 

A.  Empathy;

  •  improves the quality of your interpersonal relationships.

  • boosts your happiness and creativity levels.

  • based work cultures are more productive, have higher employee satisfaction and retention rates.

  •  fights inequality and racism.

  • lowers incidences of domestic violence and sexual assault



The Role of Empathy in Democracy
Michael Morrell

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Michael E. Morrell is Associate Professor, University of Connecticut.  His main research interests examine the connections between empathy and democracy, the effects of direct democratic participation on citizens, and the role of political efficacy in democracy, public opinion, and political behavior.


Michael is also continuing to explore his theory of the role of empathy in democracy as it relates to topics ranging from President Barack Obama to agonistic democracy. Michael is author of Empathy and Democracy: Feeling, Thinking, and Deliberation


Signing of the U.S.Constitution - Junius Brutus Stearns (Wikipedia)


"Today's democracies are still struggling to fulfill
 democracy's promise of equal consideration,
and the claim I will defend is that they can

do so most fully by giving empathy a

central role in democratic
decision-making. "

Bridging Racial Divides with Radical Empathy
Terri Givens

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Terri Givens is the CEO and Founder of Brighter Higher Ed. She is also a political scientist with more than 30 years of success in higher education, politics, international affairs, and non-profits. Terri is author of, Radical Empathy: Finding a Path to Bridging Racial Divides.

"We live in a time when practicing  empathy, taking action, and creating change and building trust are more important than ever."


"Radical Empathy is the core idea that runs through this book. It requires moving beyond walking in someone else's shoes to taking action that will not only help that person but will also improve our society.


Practicing radical empathy can provide real change in peoples lives, and I empathize the word practicing - I focus on the fact that having empathy is different from practicing empathy."

Empathy is Vital for the Creative Process to Thrive

 Helen Demetriou


Helen Demetriou obtained her PhD in developmental psychology from the Institute of Psychiatry, University of London in 1998, where she also worked at the Centre for Social, Genetic and Developmental Research.  Since then, she has worked at the Faculty of Education of the University of Cambridge as Research and Teaching Associate. Helen is the author of, Empathy, Emotion and Education. She has performed many studies about empathy, creativity and education, including the recent study, Empathy is the mother of invention: emotion and cognition for creativity in the classroom.


"we argue that a very important aspect that influences invention and creativity is the empathy factor... Such exploration and immersion through perceptual openness, role-taking and flexible ego-control characteristic of empathy correlate and lead to creativity and thence to constructive evaluative reflection:
explore, create, evaluate.

Empathy and open-mindedness in the real world: all these form the vital ingredients for the creative process to thrive and for encouraging the designers of tomorrow.

Current State of the Empathy & Compassion Movements
 and where do we go from here?

James Doty



James Doty is Stanford Clinical Professor of Neurosurgery and founding director of the Center for the Study of Compassion and  Altruism Research and Education (CCARE). CCARE is striving to create a community of scholars and researchers, including neuroscientists, psychologists, educators and philosophical and contemplative thinkers around the study of compassion.

Edwin Rutsch is director of the Center for Building a Culture of Empathy. The center has many projects to help raise the level of empathy in our global society and culture.


A discussion about the current state of the empathy and compassion movements and where they might be headed. We discuss the Empathy Circle process as a way to hold constructive dialogues. CCARE becomes a cosponsor of the project to hold Empathy Circles between Congressional Representatives from the
political left, right and center.

Empathy as the Gateway and Path
Thom Bond


Thom Bond is a founder of New York City for Nonviolent Communication.  Thom is the creator and leader of, The Compassion Course and author of the Compassion Book: Lessons from the Compassion Course.

From the book,
"Empathy is the basic practice that brings me to compassion. It is ultimately quite simple, and quite challenging.


Empathy is the exploration of our human experience  - our feelings, our needs - our life-energy trying to emerge and guide us. It is the mindful question, the wondering and the genuine curiosity about what we or some else is going through."

Teaching Adults to Teach Empathy To Kids
Lynne Azarchi

Lynne Azarchi is Executive Director of Kidsbridge Tolerance Center outside of Trenton, New Jersey--a nonprofit organization dedicated to fostering bullying prevention, diversity appreciation, anti-bias, empathy, and empowerment. Lynne is the author of, 'The Empathy Advantage: Coaching Children to Be Kind, Respectful, and Successful.'

Empathy may be not be a cure-all, but just a little effort can transform a child into a more sensitive, caring human being. The good news is that empathy - the ability to "walk in someone else's shoes" - can be taught. This book is all about teaching adults to teach empathy to kids. The payoff will last a lifetime.


5 Tips to Cultivate Empathy
Alexandra Smith


Alexandra Smith is a licensed professional clinical counselor and writer based in Minneapolis. She wrote the article, 5 Tips to Cultivate Empathy. In this dialogue we discuss the article and her tips. She writes,

Practicing empathy is an essential step to resolving conflict and developing meaningful relationships. Here are five ways to activate empathy.

  1. Shift into an empathy-ready mindset..

  2. Ask open-ended questions...

  3. Practice active listening...

  4. Recognize the limits of empathy...

  5. Pass it on...

Qualified Empathy
A key element for an empowerment professional

Eija Raatikainen

Eija Raatikainen (PhD / University of Helsinki) is a Principal lecturer in University of Applied Sciences of Metropolia in Social Service programme. Her academic focus is "Trust”, as phenomena in different field, as like in social work and educational practice.  Eija is coauthor of the study,  Qualified Empathy: A key element for an empowerment professional.

"In this paper, we will describe how teaching and learning to use empathy has been a part of studies for Social Services students. We argue that professional empathy can be approached in multisensory
ways when studying empathy.


 In our case, we have used traditional learning and teaching methods alongside creative methods such as visual arts and drama as ways to learn
and teach empathy."

If We Demanded Empathy from Our
Politicians & Leaders!

 Arthur P. Ciaramicoli



"If we were committed to developing empathy in our schools and if we demanded empathy from our politicians and from leaders within the corporate world and beyond, then our society would experience the shift from exclusion and fear of differences to a deep appreciation for diversity and also diverse ideas."

"I recently spoke with Edwin Rutsch, founding director of the Center for Building a Culture of Empathy. He has been working for over 12 years to create a more empathic society. He has interviewed over 200 empathy experts and posted the interviews on his website CultureOfEmpathy.Com. Edwin created a simple and accessible method of learning, practicing and deepening mutual empathy in small groups called Empathy Circles.


He uses this method to lessons political, social, family and personal divides. He says he finds Empathy Circles to be the most effective first step or gateway practice for enhancing empathy skills."   - Arthur P.Ciaramicoli, The Transformation of Belief: Empathy Circles and Group Practices 

Facing the COVID-19 Pandemic with Empathy at
Work and Home

Empathy Activists Circle #8: View Video On Facebook or On YouTube

An Empathy Circle with empathy activists, experts, book authors, etc. exploring different aspects of how to build a more empathic world.

Maria Ross
Author: The Empathy Edge: Harnessing the Value of Compassion as an Engine for Success  
Being empathetic at work means seeing the situation from another's perspective, and using that vantage point to shape your leadership style, workplace culture, and branding strategy.

Minter Dial
Author: Heartificial Empathy, Putting Heart into Business and Artificial Intelligence.
Heartificial Empathy looks at why and how brands should learn to flex their empathic muscle, as well as how to encode empathy in AI.

Kim Smiley
Founder: The Empathy Effect
The goal of The Empathy Effect is to inspire loving kindness in public and private life, at home, at school, at work and in the world. What are you waiting for? Join the Empathy Revolution.

Edwin Rutsch
Director: Center for Building a Culture of Empathy
The Center for Building a Culture of Empathy is a leader of the global empathy movement. Our mission is to build a movement for creating a global worldwide culture of empathy and care.


The Varied Dynamics of Empathy in Politics
 Claire Yorke


Claire Yorke is a Henry A. Kissinger Postdoctoral Fellow at International Security Studies and the Jackson Institute for Global Affairs at Yale University. Her research explores the role and limitations of empathy and emotions in international affairs and diplomacy.  Claire wrote an article/paper titled, The Significance and Limitations of Empathy in Strategic Communications.



"This article examines the varied dynamics of empathy through the lens of American politics at domestic and international levels. It argues that empathy is a multifaceted and complex concept with transformative power, but also with practical and political limitations, which deserves far greater attention from strategic communications practitioners."


Understanding Empathy and Compassion
Tania Singer

Tania Singer is a social neuroscientist and psychologist at the Max Planck Institute in Berlin, Germany. Her research aims to increase our understanding of the foundations of human social behavior. Adopting an interdisciplinary approach, she and her team investigate the neuronal, hormonal, and developmental foundations of human social cognition, social and moral emotions such as empathy and compassion. In this dialogue we discussed the nature of empathy and her studies on  different empathy and compassion training types and their benefits.


Study Conclusion:
"Contemplative dyads elicited engagement similar to classical contemplative practices and increased perceived social connectedness. Contemplative dyads represent a new type of intervention targeting social connectedness and intersubjective capacities deficient in participants who experience loneliness and in many psychopathologies."


 In other words, there are a lot of benefits in people empathically listening to each other.  One of the benefits is that it reduces social anxiety about being judged and they feel more connected. This feeling of lower stress and greater connection lasts over time as well.

Sub Conferences: Science

Empathy Activists Circle #7
How Might We Design Empathy Trainings?

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An Empathy Circle with empathy activists, experts, book authors, etc. exploring different aspects of empathy. 


"Empathy Circles are the most effective gateway and foundational empathy building practice."
Edwin Rutsch
Director: Center for Building a Culture of Empathy

"It's time to harness the power of empathy by creating shared terminology, vision, and values across disciplines and sectors. As leaders of cross-industry dialogue and innovation, we are positioned to develop the standards and best practices of the empathy-building movement."
Elif Gokcigdem
Author: Fostering Empathy Through Museums

"History tells us that empathy comprises a complex, artful but also effortful practice that enrolls feelings, intellect, and imagination."
Author: Empathy: A History

"Rosa brings deep content expertise in working with engaged empathy to evoke collaborative sense-making, group flow, and energetic alignment within highly diverse groups."
Rosa Zubizarreta
Author: From Conflict to Creative Collaboration: A User's Guide to Dynamic Facilitation

Activating Social Empathy in Schools
12 week empathy program for secondary schools

Patrick Dolan

Patrick Dolan is a professor and director of the UNESCO Child and Family Research Centre at  the National University of Ireland Galway. Pat is co-developing and testing the Activating Social Empathy program. Social Empathy Education aims to develop and mainstream Social Empathy Education program in schools and in teacher education.

The program is structured around 4 key learning principles:

1. UNDERSTANDING EMPATHY: Students learn what empathy is and why it is important.


2. PRACTICING EMPATHY: Students practice and strengthen their empathy skills.


3. OVERCOMING THE BARRIERS: Students discuss the barriers to empathy and identify ways they can overcome these obstacles.


4. PUTTING EMPATHY INTO ACTION: Students take part in a social action project of their own choosing.

Building Cultures of Empathy at Work and Beyond
Maria Ross

Maria Ross is the founder of Red Slice, a consultancy that advises entrepreneurs, startups, and fast-growth businesses on how to build an irresistible brand story and authentically connect with customers. She is a keynote speaker who regularly speaks to audiences on marketing and building an engaging brand story that drives growth and impact. Maria understands the power of empathy at both a brand and personal level. She is author of The Empathy Edge: Harnessing the Value of Compassion as an Engine for Success.


Ford Madox Brown, Work, Wikipedia

"When you encourage empathy among your workforce and parlay that mindset outward to customers, your company will thrive. Why? Because empathetic businesses better understand their customers and can anticipate their wants and needs - delivering solutions to the market that customers crave."


Empathy for Evoking Collaborative Flow
Rosa Zubizarreta

Rosa Zubizarreta works with leaders and groups to catalyze creativity and collaboration. She specializes in developing organizational capacity for strategic conversations to facilitate group learning, shared systemic perspectives, and effective action.

Rosa brings deep content expertise in working with engaged empathy to evoke collaborative sense-making, group flow, and energetic alignment within highly diverse groups. Author of "From Conflict to Creative Collaboration: A User's Guide to Dynamic Facilitation," she teaches this work internationally.  In the last few years, she has been exploring the use of Empathy Circles with some of her organizational clients, with facilitator learning groups, and in communication workshops.



Rosa says, "I'm totally excited to see that Edwin Rutsch, the creator of Empathy Circles, has been bringing his work into the arena of healing political divides. My experience is that this simple-yet-powerful form is actually quite revolutionary, in the
best sense of the word..."

Empathy and Awakening from the Meaning Crisis
John Vervaeke

John Vervaeke, is an award-winning lecturer at the University of Toronto in the departments of psychology, cognitive science and Buddhist psychology.  His work is in integrating science and spirituality to solve the meaning crisis.  He hosts an extensive Youtube video lecture series entitled, Awakening from the Meaning Crisis and has taken part in numerous public dialogues to explore the topic.

John writes, "The Meaning Crisis is at the root of modern crises of mental health, the response to environmental collapse, and the political system. We are drowning in bullshit--literally "meaninglessness". We feel disconnected from ourselves, each other, the world, and a viable future."



In this dialogue, Edwin Rutsch and John discuss how empathy relates to John's work to solve the meaning crisis. We begin by trying to get a clear mutual understanding on what we mean by empathy.


Different Faces of Empathy
feelings of similarity disrupt recognition

Jacob Israelashvili

 Jacob Israelashvili did his PhD in Social Psychology at Tel Aviv University.  His research examines the empathic processes that antecedent understanding and caring for others. Jacob recently coauthored a study and paper entitled: Different faces of empathy: Feelings of similarity disrupt recognition of negative emotions.  In this interview we talk about that study.

Some Highlights of the Study.

  • Recognition of emotions becomes less accurate when having had similar negative experiences.

  • Personal distress evoked by a negative story inhibits recognition of the storyteller's emotions.

  • Being instructed to take another's perspective does not help to recognize emotions better.

Sub Conferences: Science

Does Empathy have Dark Sides or is it all Light?
 New Part 2 Posted - Part 1 and Part 2

Fritz Breithaupt

Fritz Breithaupt is Provost Professor at Indiana University Bloomington. He founded and directs the Experimental Humanities Laboratory at IU. He is author of the book, The Dark Sides of Empathy.

Fritz argues that some of the dark sides of empathy include; self-loss, side taking, identifying with the helper, sadistic empathy and vampiristic empathy. Edwin argues that empathy is light and the so-called dark sides are not empathy, but blocks to empathy.

Fritz says (and Edwin agrees) that a benefit of empathy is;


 "Empathy intensifies our experiences and widens the scope of our perceptions. We feel more than we could with-out it, and it enables us to participate more fully in the lives of others, even fictional characters."


 "Empathy is, of course, a critical factor in healthy long-term relationships, too, making it easier for us to understand our family members or romantic partners and anticipate their emotional needs and reactions. Love without empathy would be a sad thing for most people."

Sub Conferences: Science


More Empathy is the Solution to Compassion Fatigue

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Lou Agosta & Edwin Rutsch discuss Lou's recent article. 'Compassion Fatigue: A radical proposal for overcoming it.' We  talk about the confusion, inaccuracies, myths and misunderstandings about the concepts and experiences of:

* Empathy,
* Compassion,
* Compassion Fatigue,
* Empathic Distress,
* Empathy Fatigue,
* Culture of Empathy.

The good news is that empathy serves as an antidote to burnout or "compassion fatigue." Note the language here. Unregulated empathy results in "compassion fatigue." However, empathy lessons repeatedly distinguish empathy from compassion.

Most providers of empathy find that with a modest amount of training, they can adjust their empathic receptivity up or down to maintain their own emotional equilibrium. In the face of a series of sequential samples of suffering, the empathic person is able to maintain his emotional equilibrium thanks to a properly adjusted empathic receptivity. No one is saying that the other's suffering or pain should be minimized in any way or invalidated. One is saying that, with practice, regulating empathy becomes a best practice.

Empathy Circle
What are any concerns, anxieties, worries or fears you are dealing with in your life?

Peter Limberg, John Vervaeke, Jason Snyder, Edwin Rutsch
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  • Peter Limberg - Empathy Circles 'a good conversational modality for memetic mediators to have in their toolkit.'

  • John Vervaeke - Psychology and Cognitive Science Professor | Integrating science and spirituality to solve the meaning crisis

  • Jason Snyder - I found the Empathy Circle format to be a very useful 'enabling constraint' encouraging a dynamic interplay between co-presence, theory, and embodied/intuitive processing. Thanks guys!

  • Edwin Rutsch - Director Center for Building a Culture of Empathy


Peter Limberg Interviews Edwin Rutsch
the Empathy Circle Process

Peter Limberg of the Intellectual Explorers Podcast and Edwin Rutsch discuss the nature of Edwin's Empathy Circle process.  We discuss the origin of the practice, examples, the how to, upcoming events and more.
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Regenerative Cultures and Cultures of Empathy
Daniel Christian Wahl

Daniel Christian Wahl is author of Designing Regenerative Cultures. In his book, Daniel explores ways of relating to the many converging crises and opportunities faced by humanity at a local, regional and global scale. He invites us to step back from our tendency to want quick-fix solutions.

In this dialogue, we talk about the relationship between designing Regenerative Cultures and Cultures of Empathy. We see how they are closely interrelated.  Instead of othering and separating from each other, we need to come together with mutual empathy, presence, connection and care to heal the planet and co-design Regenerative and Empathic Cultures.


Daniel writes, "Spreading the story of why we care about life and the health of the whole and sharing the narrative of interbeing is culturally creative meta-design. By sharing the new and ancient story of interbeing we facilitate the emergence of diverse regenerative cultures scale-linked by empathy and cooperation."



Responses to
"Misuse of Empathy Is Devaluing Pain"

Matthew Delaney

Matthew Delaney is an editor and reporter for a local newspaper in the Washington, D.C. metro area. He wrote an article in the magazine Quillette, titled The Misuse of Empathy Is Devaluing Pain. He had a wide range of criticism of empathy, saying it is; divisive, self-centered, and unhelpful. It makes people take sides in a conflict, supports cancel culture, it leads to tribalism, and temps us into immediacy. Matt feels hopeless that society will change for the better or overcome it's polarization and that it will have to hit a rock bottom before it can change.

Edwin listens to and empathizes with Matt and shows how he is misunderstanding the nature of empathy.  He explains how the qualities he is criticizing are not empathy, but the blocks to empathy.

Effective Empathic Listening
Douglas E. Noll

Doug Noll has been in professional practice for over 40 years. For the past 20 years, he has dedicated himself to understanding the emotional and biological origins of human conflict. With this knowledge, he has developed a set of empathic listening skills that "work the first time, every time". He is author of, De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Paperback.


Doug says: "Empathic leadership development is essential for teachers, educators, administrators, and school board members. Without the ability to connect with students and parents quickly and effectively, conflict escalates. Empathic leadership is a skill comprised of three elements:

  • The ability to ignore the words, focus on emotions, and reflect those emotions back

  • The ability to problem-solve specific issues once calm is restored

  • The ability to create a learning environment that is emotionally safe

This skills must be learned, practiced and honed to be mastered. Research shows that learning empathic leadership skills will not come from a one-off workshop."

Conference: Lawyers for Empathy


God and Satan in Mediation
Restorative Empathy Circle

God and Satan take part in this Restorative Empathy Circle Mediation to work out their differences. For millennium God and Satan have been in conflict with each other. Edwin Rutsch invites them to take part in a Restorative Empathy Circle to use mutual empathic listening to talk out their differences. The opening issue they talk about is that Satan left heaven.

An Empathy Circle is a structured dialogue process based on mutual active listening. The process increases constructive dialogue and mutual understanding by ensuring that each person feels fully heard to their satisfaction. It can be used for conflict mediation.


Transforming Law as a Healing Profession
Pauline H. Tesler

 Pauline Tesler is a a pioneer in interdisciplinary collaborative legal practice. She is founding director of the Integrative Law Institute, author of Collaborative Law: Achieving Effective Resolution Without Litigation.  Her workshops and writings catalyzed an international movement called "Collaborative Law" that is changing the face of family law in 28 nations.  In this dialogue we talk about the role of empathy in transforming law into a healing and collaborative profession.

"We believe that law can be a healing profession, and that lawyers can be peacemakers. At the Integrative Law Institute, our mission is to bring insights and tools to lawyers so that they have what they need to return the practice of law to this original purpose: helping people reach resolution that heals the conflict."

Conference: Lawyers for Empathy

The War on Empathy
John Wood

John Wood Jr. is a national leader for Better Angels, a former nominee for congress, former Vice-Chairman of the Republican Party of Los Angeles County, and author of the upcoming book Transcending Politics: Perspectives for a Divided Nation.


He is Director of Media Development and spokesman at Better Angels. Better Angels is a national, grassroots, nonprofit organization dedicated to project of creating greater understanding and collaboration in our civic culture between Democratic and Republican voters. I am responsible for the development of original written, video and audio content for Better Angels website and social channels, crafting public messaging, and public speaking.


John wrote an article called The War on Empathy. In this dialogue we discuss the article.

"There is something subversive in empathy that makes it threatening to certain social status-quos. Most political coalitions are based, to some degree, on the dehumanization of their opponents.

Some find empathy to be antithetical to the pursuit of justice. To others, empathy is the virtue of the morally irresolute. In a time when some politicians relentlessly insult their opponents on Twitter while others encourage their supporters to harass opponents in public places, empathy may not always strike everyone as a self-evident good. It is good to understand why empathy seems to frustrate, disappoint, or even offend its critics, precisely because it is a virtue worth defending."

Does Empathy have Dark Sides or is it all Light?

Fritz Breithaupt

Fritz Breithaupt is Provost Professor at Indiana University Bloomington. He founded and directs the Experimental Humanities Laboratory at IU. He is author of the book, The Dark Sides of Empathy.

Fritz argues that some of the dark sides of empathy include; self-loss, side taking, identifying with the helper, sadistic empathy and vampiristic empathy. Edwin argues that empathy is light and the so-called dark sides are not empathy, but blocks to empathy.

Fritz says (and Edwin agrees) that a benefit of empathy is;


 "Empathy intensifies our experiences and widens the scope of our perceptions. We feel more than we could with-out it, and it enables us to participate more fully in the lives of others, even fictional characters."


 "Empathy is, of course, a critical factor in healthy long-term relationships, too, making it easier for us to understand our family members or romantic partners and anticipate their emotional needs and reactions. Love without empathy would be a sad thing for most people."

Sub Conferences: Science


Building Social and Cultural Empathy
Elizabeth  Segal


Elizabeth A. Segal is a social policy analyst with a background in professional social work. She currently holds the position of Professor in the School of Social Work at Arizona State University. Dr. Segal's current research is on social empathy, the application of empathic insights into creating better social welfare policies and programs. She has begun work on creating a compendium of methods to teach social empathy and an instrument to measure people's inclination towards social empathy.

Elizabeth is author of many books, including;
   * Social Empathy: The Art of Understanding Others
   * Assessing Empathy.
   * An Introduction to the Profession of Social Work.


Our ability to understand others and help others understand us is essential to our individual and collective well-being. Yet there are many barriers that keep us from walking in the shoes of others: fear, skepticism, and power structures that separate us from those outside our narrow groups.


 To progress in a multicultural world and ensure our common good, we need to overcome these obstacles. Our best hope can be found
 in the skill of empathy.

Sub Conferences: Science

Best Ways to Learn, Practice and Deepen Empathy
Michele Borba

Michele Borba, is an internationally renowned educational psychologist and an expert in parenting, bullying, and character development. She is an award-winning author of twenty-two books translated into fourteen languages. One of the foremost authorities on childhood development in the country, she is a regular NBC contributor who appears regularly on Today and has been featured as an expert on Dateline, The View, Dr. Phil, NBC Nightly News, Fox & Friends, Dr. Oz, and The Early Show, among many others.  She is author of, UnSelfie: Why Empathetic Kids Succeed in Our All-About-Me World.


"Empathy is the root of humanity and the foundation that helps our children become good, caring people. But the Empathy Advantage also gives them a huge edge at happiness and success."

Sub Conference: Education

Bridging The Divide Of Polarizing
Conversations with Edwin Rutsch

Being interviewed by Justine Willis Toms on New Dimensions Radio.
See this link for Free Listening Through May 7, 2019.

For over 4 decades New Dimensions has been gleaning experience and inspiration from some of the world
's most innovative, enlightened, and trustworthy wisdom leaders as it sows the seeds of encouragement and confidence that, together, we can meet the challenges of the 21st Century.

Topics Explored in This Dialogue

  • What is the history of the concept of empathy

  • What is the difference between empathy and sympathy

  • What are some physical traits we can cultivate to establish empathy with another

  • What is an example of connecting with a neighbor of a different political persuasion

  • How developing empathy is a gateway practice like developing a muscle

  • What is the process used in the Empathy Cafes both on-line and in person

  • How Rutsch set up an Empathy Tent at a Berkeley political rally

  • Why it is important to repeat back to the person what they have said without having to agree with them...

  • ....

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