"...authentic dialogue also demands a capacity for empathy. For dialogue to
take place, there has to be this empathy." Pope Francis
"This capacity for empathy enables a true human dialogue in which words,
ideas and questions arise from an experience of fraternity and shared
humanity." Pope Francis
"Nor can there be authentic dialogue unless we are capable of opening our
minds and hearts, in empathy and sincere receptivity, to those with whom
we speak."Pope Francis
“Amid a culture of indifference which not infrequently turns
ruthless, our style of life should instead be devout, filled with
empathy, compassion and mercy, drawn daily from the wellspring of
prayer,” Pope Francis, 2015, Christmas eve mass
"This capacity for empathy leads to a genuine encounter – we have to
progress toward this culture of encounter – in which heart speaks to
heart..." Pope Francis
A clear sense of one’s own identity and a capacity for empathy are thus
the point of departure for all dialogue......
Pope Francis
"And so, with my identity and my empathy, my openness, I walk with the
other. I don’t try to make him come over to me, I don’t proselytize. "
Pope Francis
by
Elise Harris
"On Friday Pope Francis told participants in a Vatican stem cell summit
that a renewed sense of empathy ought to fuel their work and research,
ensuring that no person goes without access to proper care.
“It is fundamentally important that we promote greater empathy in
society, and not remain indifferent to our neighbor’s cry for help,
including when he or she is suffering from a rare disease,” the Pope
said April 29.
“this is why the globalization of indifference must be countered by the
globalization of empathy."
These are just a
few examples of the many metaphors and frames used to powerful effect in
this document.
They have one thing in common, which they also share with the
progressive value system: they are rooted in a worldview based on
empathy.
This is Empathy writ large, beyond individual empathy: it is a global
empathy for all humanity, all of life -- animals, fish, plants, and
Nature, which provides all life. What is absent is the all too common
narrow view of religion as about individuals alone, in which THE
spiritual issue is whether YOU get into Heaven, and that is a matter of
personal responsibility.
You are responsible for yourself, not for others, not for all of life
and what is life-giving. That narrow view of individual, not social or
global responsibility is completely absent from the Pope's message.
"We cannot engage in real dialogue unless we are
conscious of our own identity. We can’t dialogue, we can’t start
dialoguing from nothing, from zero, from a foggy sense of who we are.
Nor can there be authentic dialogue unless we are capable of opening our
minds and hearts, in empathy and sincere receptivity, to those with
whom we speak. In other words, an attentiveness in which the Holy Spirit
is our guide.
A clear sense of one’s own identity and a capacity for
empathy are thus the point of departure for all dialogue......
Finally, together with a clear sense of our own Christian identity,
authentic dialogue also demands a capacity for empathy. For dialogue to
take place, there has to be this empathy.
We are challenged to listen not only to the words which others speak,
but to the unspoken communication of their experiences, their hopes and
aspirations, their struggles and their deepest concerns. Such empathy
must be the fruit of our spiritual insight and personal experience,
which lead us to see others as brothers and sisters, and to “hear”, in
and beyond their words and actions, what their hearts wish to
communicate.
In this sense, dialogue demands of us a truly contemplative spirit of
openness and receptivity to the other. I cannot engage in dialogue if I
am closed to others. Openness? Even more: acceptance! Come to my house,
enter my heart. My heart welcomes you. It wants to hear you.
This capacity for empathy enables a true human dialogue in which words,
ideas and questions arise from an experience of fraternity and shared
humanity.
If we want to get to the theological basis of this, we have to go to the
Father: he created us all; all of us are children of one Father.
This capacity for empathy leads to a genuine encounter – we have to
progress toward this culture of encounter – in which heart speaks to
heart...
And so, with my identity and my empathy, my openness, I walk with the
other. I don’t try to make him come over to me, I don’t proselytize.
"
"This is the good news that demands from each one a step
forward, a perennial exercise of empathy, of listening to the suffering
and the hopes of others, even those furthest away from me, and walking
the demanding path of that love which knows how to give and spend itself
freely for the good of all our brothers and sisters."
Dialogue is so important, but to dialogue two things are necessary:
one’s identity as a starting point and empathy toward others.
If I am not sure of my identity and I go to speak, I end up bartering my
faith. You cannot dialogue without starting from your own identity,
and empathy,
which isa
priorinot
condemning. Every man, every woman has something of their own to give
us; every man, every woman has their own story, their own situation and
we have to listen to it. Then the prudence of the Holy Spirit will tell
us how to respond. ...
“The Church grows not by proselytism, but by attraction”. And what’s the
attraction?
It is this human empathy, which is then guided by the Holy Spirit.
Therefore, what will be the profile of the priest of this century, which
is so secularized? ...
But he who welcomes the people and is close to them and dialogues with
them does so because he feels
certain of his identity, which leads him to have a heart open to
empathy.
This is what comes to me in response to your question....
It is twofold faithfulness and twofold transcendence: to be faithful to
God is to seek him, to open oneself to Him in prayer, remembering that
He is the faithful one. He cannot deny Himself; he is always faithful.
And then opening oneself to others;
it is that empathy, that respect, that listening,
and saying the right word with patience."
With Barack Obama
"You remind us that 'the Lord's most powerful message' is mercy. That
means welcoming the stranger with empathy and a truly open heart – from
the refugee who flees war torn lands, to the immigrant who leaves home
in search of a better life. It means showing compassion and love for the
marginalized and the outcast, those who have suffered, and those who
seek redemption.
"I think the theme that stitched our conversation together
was a belief that in politics and in lifethe
quality of empathy,
the ability to stand in somebody else’s shoes and to care for someone
even if they don't look like you or talk like you or share your
philosophy — that that's critical.
It’s the lack of empathy that makes it very easy for us to plunge into
wars.It's
the lack of empathy that allows us to ignore the homeless on the
streets.And
obviously central to my Christian faith is a belief in treating others
as I’d have them treat me. And what’s I think created so much love and
excitement for His Holiness has been that he seems to live this, and
shows that joy continuously." Barack Obama
I think the theme that stitched our conversation together
was a belief that in politics and in lifethe
quality of empathy,
the ability to stand in somebody else’s shoes and to care for someone
even if they don't look like you or talk like you or share your
philosophy — that that's critical.
It’s the lack of empathy that makes it very easy for us to plunge into
wars.It's
the lack of empathy that allows us to ignore the homeless on the
streets.And
obviously central to my Christian faith is a belief in treating others
as I’d have them treat me. And what’s I think created so much love and
excitement for His Holiness has been that he seems to live this, and
shows that joy continuously.
Barack Obama: You remind us that "the Lord's
most powerful message" is mercy. That means welcoming the stranger with
empathy and a truly open heart - from the refugee who flees war torn
lands, to the immigrant who leaves home in search of a better life. It
means showing compassion and love for the marginalized and the outcast,
those who have suffered, and those who seek redemption.