Thea Blair is a Waldorf teacher, and a Pediatric Massage
Therapist. She operated a successful, Waldorf-inspired pre-school out of
her home for fourteen years. Observing the amazing results of touch, either
playful or comforting, in resolving children's emotional stress led her to
seek a massage training. She now works as a parent and teacher coach, and a
touch educator.
Thea brings Peer Massage to schools as a consultant. She is
available for talks and workshops about touch, parenting, and childhood
development.
Thea wrote a
research paper on empathy: "The
Role of Motor Development in the Development of Empathy" and holds "The
Foundations of Empathy" presentations on empathy as well. She
writes: "The ability to empathize develops with contributions from
various biologically and environmentally based factors. These factors
include genetics, child temperament, parenting factors such as warmth,
parent-child synchrony, and other qualities of the parent child
relationship, and physical imitation such as facial mimicry and motor
imitation, using areas of the brain such as the mirror neuron system and
the limbic system. In this paper I will explore how motor development
supports the development of empathic awareness." In this
dialogue we discussed her empathy research and insights.
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"I offer an evening presentation or a full blown workshop on
this topic. Last October I gave this presentation to the faculty of the
Haleakala Waldorf School. They enjoyed it so much they asked me back in
February to give the same presentation to the parents of their students
as well as a workshop at their teacher’s conference. "
The Foundations of Empathy a presentation
1) the distinction (as I see it) between empathy, sympathy, and
antipathy
a) reflexive/reactive v. free b) sympathy = codependence, antipathy = counterdependence
c) mirror neurons
2) sensorimotor development as a precursor to mature empathy
a) first form of self-awareness b) senses of bodily awareness: touch, life, movement, balance c) body mapping d) PAM (perception action model) e) autonomic nervous system: relaxation and connectedness v.
fight/flight and competition/aggression
3) developmental stages of empathy
a) reflexive, emotional contagion b) environmental influences c) mature empathy - or not
Our ability to respond with a mature or
freely chosen empathy depends on our ability to access our frontal
lobes.
This is the seat of the human qualities of reasoning and creative
thinking.
"While
definitions of empathy vary considerably, the need for mutual
understanding between human beings has never been higher. The ability to
take the perspective of another and to use this information to act
compassionately is a high point in human development. Are we born with
this capacity or is it something learned? The simple answer: both.
Following the classic storyline of the hero’s journey, we are given a
gift, we lose it, and we engage in the adventure of getting it back. It
is a principle in Waldorf education that we don’t simply identify an
issue and hammer away on it; we paint the broadest picture possible and
work with the factors that support and develop the issue. "
"Our
complex social world requires that we perceive the facial expressions,
body postures, gestures, and speech of others accurately and quickly in
order to generate an appropriate response. Recent findings in cognitive
neuroscience have revealed that the motor cortex, long confined to the
role of mere action programming and execution, does in fact play a
crucial role in complex cognitive abilities such as the understanding of
the intentions and goals of speech and actions of others. It is called
the "motor cognition hypothesis" and it postulates that motor cognition
provides both human and nonhuman primates with a
direct understanding of actions that match their own action skill set (Gallese,
et al 2009).
Motor development also aids in the concept of self
awareness. This leads
to the apprehension that others are intentional agents like the self and
ultimately to the
direct perception of the self of another. These discoveries open a new
perspective on the origins of social understanding. They emphasize the
crucial role played by the motor system in providing the building
blocks
upon which more sophisticated social cognitive abilities can be built (Gallese,
et al 2009). The ability to empathize develops with contributions from
various biologically and environmentally based factors.
These factors
include genetics, child temperament, parenting factors such as warmth,
parent-child synchrony, and other qualities of the parentchild
relationship, and physical imitation such as facial mimicry and motor
imitation, using areas of the brain such as the mirror neuron system and
the limbic system (McDonald & Messinger 2009). In this paper I will
explore how motor development supports the development of empathic
awareness. "